how we met...

i have only had one boyfriend in my life before Jared. and i wasnt ready for another. my friends were constintly getting upset with me cuz they had all hooked up with someone, and i was the only single. i dated alot, but none really had any sparks. one was too quiet, not just on the date, but the entire time i knew him. another was too possesive, didnt want me so soccialize with any guy cuz he was afraid they would hurt me in some way. one drove me nuts cuz he refused to let me open my own door so i had to sit and wait for him to open it.

it wasnt that i was picky, it was more i didnt wanna waste my time dating exclusivle to one man if i didnt really have fire works flying.

in january, i had to go to the doctor cuz i had really bad panic attacks. they hooked me up to a heart monitor for a week, and monitored. (nothing really came from those test, bleh) but the day i got to take the strapes off, i wanted to go out.

my cuz Chelsey had been dating this kid for a few years, and they broke up. he was having a hard time, so i started talking online with him a little. he suggested that i invite some friends, and he invite some and we all go bowling.

i invited Sean and Elise(who at the time were bf/gf) and he invited his brother, Jared.

at first i thought Jared was more of a bad ass. someone more adventurous and would cause trouble. i was intrigued!!! i had only dating perfect boys. ones that wanted me safe and protected.

after a really fun night of bowling, i went home and turned on the family computer. i looked up richard's profile, and saw that Jared too had a myspace!! so i sent him an email.

after swapping a few messages, we swapped yahoo emails and got onto yahoo messenger and started shatting.

my sis Michelle was sitting down with me as we were talking, and i told her that i was determined to get a date!

after a few hours, i was giving up. so i wrote my message, "im getting tired and going to bed. we should hang out sometime." and the response came back "how about a movie?"



the first date went by kinda akward, but still had a great time. and after a few more days, i was hooked. altho my origional theories of him being a bad boy were incorrect by far, i couldnt be happier with my man!!! averything he does for me is a canstent reminder of how lucky i am with my catch!!